It’s not immediately obvious, but you can tell something isn’t quite right. Nothing serious enough to warrant more than a passing thought, but it’s there, lurking in the background, slowly sucking the joy from your very existence.
Am I getting warm?
Also, although they may look and dress in a similar way – and they may even acknowledge your presence from time to time. You can’t shake off the horrible feeling that your friends, family and co-workers are performing in a totally different play. Vibrant characters, each with a story to tell and an audience to tell it to. But you’re stood at the side of the stage, watching, listening and wishing that one day, you too, could be the star of the show.
So, what can you do?
You can stop wallowing in self-pity. You can stop feeling like a victim. You can stop blaming yourself for a lack of star quality.
There is a world out there and it’s crying out for someone new, someone like you, someone with the balls to take control and dominate every waking moment.
Do you have what it takes?
Do you even know what it takes?
Let me ask you this very simple question.
What really turns you on?
The answer is all you need.
Do you jump out of bed in the morning with a spring in your step and smile on your face?
Some people do. It’s hard to believe, I know, but there are people out there who can’t wait to start each and every day because they are living the dream.
I’m not talking about millionaires. I’m talking about regular people like you and I. People who refused to lie down and settle for second best.
This isn’t about money, fame or even recognition. This is about spending 8 hours every day doing the one thing you love above all else.
Are you living the dream or are you living a lie?
A relationship without love is a fire without oxygen. A relationship without passion is a fight without a cause. A relationship without a future is persevering when your heart has long since given up hope.
You know the signs. You’ve been in this situation before. Don’t settle for the cards you were dealt when inside you yearn for love, passion and excitement.
You don’t win any prizes for being miserable.
But waking up next to the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?
That’s something worth buying a ticket for.
Are you surrounding yourself with the right people?
Good friends are worth their weight in gold. They enrich your life and add value to everything you are, everything you do, and everyone you know. When it’s time to celebrate a new job, to raise your spirits following a bad day or to join you on your next adventure – it’s their duty to remain by your side.
Friends that don’t play by the rules, who drain your energy and take it all without giving anything in return should be cast away.
Weak characters never make it to the end of the story.
Who deserves to be in your next chapter?
Your free time
You’ve just arrived home from a bad day at work, and all you want to do is collapse on the sofa, enter some form of vegetative state and fix your empty gaze into the void that is early evening entertainment.
But it’s not supposed to be like this. You had plans. Your plan was to swing by the gym on the way home. Your plan was to meet with a friend for a couple of drinks and a bite to eat. You wanted to plan something, anything, that differed from your usual routine.
Your free time is a just a limbo state between one harrowing day and the next.
You need to sort it out.
Change occurs in the present – the only time is now.
So I ask you; what puts a smile on your face? What puts the jam in your doughnut? What turns you on in such a way that you’re on the verge of doing a little sex dance?
I’ve said this time and again; the very thing you spend most of your time fantasising about – that’s it.
That’s what turns you on.
You know exactly what you want. You know exactly how to get it. You are already the hero of your own story so there is absolutely no reason why you shouldn’t switch on the lights, raise the curtain and give everyone the performance of a lifetime.
We’re waiting for you.